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The mastectomy moms policy gap

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Did you know that breast cancer survivors and previvors are given a free breast pump through insurance but not the assistance to actually feed their babies?

Neither did we, at least not until we started hearing from friends, colleagues and moms about the huge injustice facing women today. Younger women, many whom have not even thought of their parenting journey, are now faced with breast cancer or the knowledge of the breast cancer gene. Surgeons, understandably, are focused on saving these women’s lives. But there is little conversation or planning around having families beyond breast cancer. There is even less conversation around how you’ll feed your baby when you’re on the other side.

Bobbie and The Breasties— A partnership

As moms and women, we are taking this to you, our community, to advocate for change. In doing so, we’ve found a great partner in The Breasties, a breast cancer organization focused on talking to younger women who are faced with breast cancer diagnoses.

Allie Brumel (co-founder of the Breasties) and other courageous moms share their stories, their heartaches, and their beliefs in what we can all do to fight for this change together.

Allie Brumel’s story

At just 28 years old, Allie was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer. When she felt the lump, she thought, “This can’t be too bad. I’m healthy. I have no family history of breast cancer,” and she moved on. As the lump grew, she prodded her doctor to take a better look. Her doctor shared the “you’re healthy/you have no family history” perception. Suddenly there she was, two months into being married, with a shocking, positive breast cancer diagnosis. “Cancer wasn’t in the plans,” as Allie said, “it never is”. Because Allie was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer, her first step was genetic testing. After finding out she was BRCA 1 positive, she knew there was an 87% chance she would have breast cancer in her lifetime. Taking a pro-active approach, she chose to have a bilateral mastectomy. But not before she had a chance to think about family planning, something that many breast cancer positive women don’t have the luxury of considering.

Cut to four wild years later, and Allie is mom to Walker, a four month old baby boy. She is very confident in the decision she made to have the bilateral mastectomy, but she still shares the guilt that comes with closing the door on breastfeeding. “At every single doctor appointment they ask me how breastfeeding is going. I don’t have breasts. I wish they would just ask ‘how is the feeding going’ rather than ask me about breastfeeding every time.” Allie is grateful and realizes that there is so much more to her and Walker’s relationship than the ability to breast feed. “He’s here and he’s healthy. He’s doing great on baby formula.”

Now that she’s here, on the other side of cancer, it just doesn’t make sense to Allie that her insurance would pay for a breast pump, but they wouldn’t pay for formula. “There are a lot of gaps in the healthcare community in general. I had breast cancer. It wasn’t a choice. If insurance companies don’t bat an eye about covering a breast pump, why can’t they use that same money to pay for formula?” Allie continues, “I love that they’re covering breast pumps! But what about people who can’t benefit from that? What else can you provide?”

Meredith’s BRCA 2 positive story

Twenty-six years after losing her mother to stage four metastatic breast cancer, Meredith Buzas learned she was BRCA 2 positive. She underwent a prophylactic double mastectomy and immediate reconstructive surgery. “I had seen my mother go through eight years of fairly constant cancer treatments with little healthy periods in between chemo treatments so my decision was not hard,” says Buzas. “With my family history and the fact my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer at 33 and my grandmother in her 40s, I had an 86% chance of developing breast cancer within my lifetime. I did the math and it was not in my favor.” 

Just a few months after her surgery, Meredith got pregnant. It was then she realized that she couldn’t breastfeed. As an informed consumer, Meredith explored her feeding options, read books, and researched different baby formula types. When she welcomed her first daughter, Meredith, she felt equipped with the knowledge she needed and was prepared to stand up to medical professionals who pushed breastfeeding.  

“I was ready to fight the fight, but I had one lactation consultant come in, and even after I said I had a bilateral mastectomy, she asked to see my breasts to see if there was any breast tissue left,” Meredith recalls as she fights back tears. “Can you imagine being in a vulnerable state where you have specified you physically can’t breastfeed only to have someone ask you to show your breast because they may be able to help you? I was fuming.” 

The hospital where Meredith delivered required a prescription for baby formula, so she ended up feeding her first baby with formula that she had brought with her to the hospital. 

Preventative double mastectomy before children

“People asked me why would you have a preventative double mastectomy before having kids since you won’t be able to breastfeed,” says Meredith. “I knew there were other options to feed my children but there was an undertone of breastfeeding assumptions and pushback from people.” 

Regardless of the comments, Meredith stayed strong, and with her second daughter felt even more prepared to take on the judgment because everyone knew her circumstances. 

The hospital had no baby formula? Yup!

“I gave birth to a little one who was hungry right away and I needed the bottle quickly,” explains Meredith. “Within 20 minutes of me giving birth, the nurse came in and said they didn’t have any formula. I’m sitting there, holding my newborn, being told there was no formula in the entire hospital. They ended up sending a nurse out and about an hour later they brought in the formula from a grocery store.” 

Both times around, Meredith looked to her medical insurance company to help cover formula or donated breastmilk costs. Both times, she got the run-around. 

Insurance didn’t cover formula or donated breastmilk

“I made multiple calls and sent multiple letters and what it boiled down to was formula coverage was tied to the medical necessity of the baby,” she explains. “The insurance company told me that if my baby started losing weight that would be a good thing because they may be able to cover it then. Basically, my child needed to lose weight or have a medical necessity for my insurance to cover something to feed my baby.” 

Insurance covered Renata’s breast pump, no problem

On the contrary, when Renata Reese decided she was going to breastfeed her newborn, she called her insurance company and began the simple process of obtaining a free pump. 

“Within 15 minutes I was set up to get my free breast pump; I was shocked at how fast it was,” says Renata, who was diagnosed with breast cancer when her daughter was six months old and is currently undergoing chemotherapy treatments. “At that time, I didn’t know I would need the formula and didn’t do research to see if the formula was covered. But the fact that it isn’t covered is mind-blowing. There has to be a second feeding option that is supported by insurance companies.”   

The Affordable Care Act doesn’t cover formula for breast cancer survivors

Jacqueline Poulos—a 13-year breast cancer survivor and mom of two— adds, “I cannot believe it takes one day to set up getting a free breast pump but the formula isn’t covered. Something needs to be done.” 

The reason Renata had such an easy time getting access to a free breast pump is that insurance companies are required to cover breastfeeding support and supplies at zero cost to the policyholder, as part of the Affordable Care Act. However, companies have no legal responsibility when it comes to formula. 

Why the Affordable Care Act covers a breast pump but not formula

“Insurance companies should cover the cost of formula when the mother is unable to breastfeed due to a double mastectomy, as they often cover the costs of breast pumps and breastfeeding supplies,” says Melanie Musson, an insurance expert at Quick Quotes.

Unfortunately, though, coverage for the formula is not the norm in the insurance world, even when the mother is physically unable to breastfeed. Since insurance companies are not required to provide coverage for formula, they usually won’t.”

That being said, Musson explains that insurance may cover the formula if mothers get a prescription from the baby’s pediatrician. Allie Brumel has friends whose babies had gastric issues and allergies, and for them, prescription formula was covered. “It should be equal for all people in this parenting world!”

Does WIC cover formula? Only sometimes

Musson suggests looking into WIC, the United States Department of Agriculture’s Women, Infants and Children supplemental nutrition program. However, not all moms are eligible for WIC, as they must fall into a certain low-income financial bracket. And even for moms who are eligible for WIC, there are different benefits for those who opt to breastfeed. For example, only moms who decide on the Fully or Mostly Breastfeeding package receive WIC food for a full year; moms who breastfeed some or fully formula feed only get a food package until the baby is six months old.  

Insurance policy comes down to government

Insurance coverage changes are in the hands of lawmakers; it’s up to those leaders to bring light to the gap for moms who can’t breastfeed, just like they did for the moms who can. When insurance companies didn’t comply with the new breastfeeding benefits, lawmakers like Congresswoman Susan Bonamici stepped up, stating in part:

“Breastfeeding is one of the most effective preventive health measures for mothers and children. The benefits to both the child and mother are well-documented, but without easy access to a breast pump or to breastfeeding consultation, some mothers cannot continue to nurse. For working or low-income mothers’, the cost hurdle can be especially difficult. In this letter, my colleagues and I urge Secretary Burwell to enforce the ACA so that no woman has to forgo breastfeeding because she cannot afford a breast pump or the counseling services.”

Insurance hurdles for breast cancer survivors

Health insurance covers breast pumps and breastfeeding support so women can feed their children regardless of the financial burden. But what about the cost hurdles of formula or donated breastmilk for mothers who physically can’t breastfeed and must turn to formula, like Allie, Meredith, Renata, or Meghan Koziel; a breast cancer survivor who is now petitioning her insurance company to cover the cost of her formula. 

“My insurance company covered my bras and my fake nipples, but they won’t cover food for me to feed my baby,” Meghan says. “It’s infuriating. If moms that have boobs can get a free breast pump, why can’t I, a mom without boobs, get free formula?” 

That’s a question many young breast cancer survivors and women who’ve opted for prophylactic mastectomies as a result of the BRCA gene now asking themselves.  

Breast pumps and being BRCA 1 positive

“When I called my insurance company it took one phone call to get my breast pump,” says Krystal, who is BRCA 1 positive and had a prophylactic double mastectomy earlier this year, just a year and a half after her mother passed away from breast cancer. “No one questioned me; instead they told me my options and that I could pick the pump I wanted. Insurance companies and doctors are now pushing us to get tested for the BRCA gene. It’s not logical for them to push me for a double mastectomy without offering a viable or affordable option for us to be able to feed our children after those procedures.” 

The expense of baby formula

According to the U.S. Surgeon General, families spend on average between $1,200 and $1,500 on baby formula during a baby’s first year, with some families spending much more. 

“We spent over $6,000 on the formula for both our kids,” says Dr. Narmda Kumar. “It’s something we allocated for at the time and knew it was something we had to do, but it wasn’t a choice.” 

Dr. Narmda Kumar wanted to breastfeed her children for a full year, but after being diagnosed with breast cancer when her son was one month old, her only option was formula. 

A doctor’s own breast cancer diagnosis

“It’s crazy, four years later and I still can’t speak about it without crying,” says Narmda, tears streaming down her face. “I gave birth to both my kids naturally and the pain of stopping breastfeeding was the worst pain I’ve ever felt—chemo and cancer included. I hated having to stop.” 

As a doctor, Narmda understands how insurance policies work and believe there are ways companies could make formula accessible to mothers who can’t breastfeed. 

“Insurance companies could apply it as part of a flexible savings account and make it tax-deductible,” she suggests. “They cover things like knee and ankle braces that are meant to help people live a better quality of life. In this particular case of formula being covered—that is a matter of survival. Parents who literally can’t feed their babies with breast milk need alternative options.”    

What health insurance does cover

In addition to braces, insurance companies cover items like sunglasses, footpads, and Tylenol when they are considered medically necessary. Companies also cover all aspects of breastfeeding from the pump to the lactation consultants to education. 

“Lactation consultants are available 24 hours a day at the hospital pushing breastfeeding, but not once did I ever get educated on formula or what was available,” says Meghan. “They just handed me a bottle, never asking me if I wanted another brand.” 

While it’s important to note there are occasions where the formula is covered, it is only covered if the baby has a genetic disposition or medical need that requires formula. 

“Technically I have PALB2, but they don’t test babies for that type of mutation,” explains Meghan. “As soon as the insurance company told me the genetic mutation was for the baby, I asked who was going to test my newborn. No one would offer me that option because for this particular mutation, the person needs to be able to make their own decision about getting tested. The insurance company had no answer for me; saying they really didn’t know. That is unacceptable.”

“Lawmakers need to know that in cases where women physically can’t feed their children, the medical necessity for formula needs to be tied to the mother and not just the health of the baby,” explains Meredith. “We need to evolve the conversation to move the needle a bit.” 

Why Allie formed The Breasties organization?

Allie was ready to move that needle. Like many of us, she admired the many breast cancer organizations out there that are doing amazing work. But she also knew there was a need for an organization that speaks to the younger community. “There are a whole slew of different circumstances to deal with when you’re diagnosed so young. Having kids, dating, navigating intimacy,” she says, “We created The Breasties organization because we were looking for support and people to connect with to discuss these specific challenges we were going though.”

Breast cancer affects your life forever. Not just while you’re in active treatment.

“We’re in this generation where knowledge is power. We want to do something about it! And connecting makes a world of difference”, Allie reminds us. “My surgeons gave me medical advice, but not advice about what happens to your body after having a double mastectomy. They gave me the medical info I needed, but not the experience based info!”

Allie teamed up with four other women impacted by breast cancer to create The Breasties, a community driven non-profit. The mission of The Breasties is to empower those affected by breast and reproductive cancers by igniting strength and positivity through connection, free retreats, wellness activities, events and an all-inclusive resourceful online community.

Bobbie has partnered with The Breasties to fight to build awareness and close the feeding policy gap.  Help us to make the change by signing our policy change petition. We hope to level the field by offering discounts and support to mastectomy survivors and previvors .

The content on this site is for informational purposes only and not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Discuss any health or feeding concerns with your infant's pediatrician. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay it based on the content on this page.

The content on this site is for informational purposes only and not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Discuss any health or feeding concerns with your infant’s pediatrician. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay it based on the content on this page.